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My Heart Is a Flower

“Open your petals. That is your power.”

With Mia and the flowers of the valley

Book art: Mia sitting on the great pink bloom in the lime-green valley, every flower celebrating
The story

How the world was found

Mia came down into a valley where every single flower was celebrating. Lime green and pink everywhere, petals opening to the light, as if the whole valley were having a party for no reason except being alive.

She climbed onto the biggest pink bloom of all and sat in its centre, and the flower told her something she would keep for the rest of her life. A heart is like a flower. It can close up tight when it is frightened. But its real power is in opening.

And then came the words every child deserves to hear: I am loved because I am me. And that is enough.

A word from the author

“I wrote this for every sensitive child who has been told they are too much. Feeling deeply is not a weakness to fix. It is a flower opening. I wanted a child to sit in the middle of that pink bloom and know, in their bones, that they are loved for exactly who they are.”

Jaany

Draft for Jaany to replace in her own words: how this world came about, and what she hoped it would give a child.

Lines to keep

The words that do the work

“Open your petals. That is your power.”

Being open, kind and soft is reframed as strength. The flower does not win by closing. It shines by opening.

“I am loved because I am me, and that is enough.”

The line parents tell us their children repeat at bedtime. Love with no conditions attached, said out loud.

“Every flower is celebrating.”

Joy without a reason. The valley shows that being alive is already something to celebrate.

What this story helps with

What it gives your child

  • Sensitivity as a strength, not something to grow out of
  • Knowing they are loved with no conditions: because I am me
  • Kindness and openness towards others, from a heart that feels safe
  • Friendship, giving and receiving love
  • A line to say at bedtime that settles the heart
Who you will meet

The characters of My Heart Is a Flower

Mia in a scene from the book

Mia

the open heart

On her great pink bloom, Mia learns the lesson her whole journey has been leading to: her tender, feeling heart is not a problem. It is her power.

Mia sitting in a flower in the valley

The flowers of the valley

celebration

Every bloom in the valley is open and celebrating. Together they are the picture of a heart that has chosen to open, and of a world that is glad you are in it.